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I need help...BADLY ! you see, i went to UAE last summer for 3 months and met the man of my dreams...smart,sweet,handsome,loving,car… decent,a gentleman...everything a girl could possibly wish forThe clicked the moment we met.We had something...i don't know what it was, but it was great...we shared a very special connection..a bond.He confessed that he had feelings for me n i did the same..so, we started going out.We were the happiest couple alive.All my friends envied me..because i had the perfect boy and a perfect relationship.We completely understood each other and had minimum fights. we met 3-4 times a week...after 3 months i had to come back to Pakistan to continue my studies and he had to travel to London to continue his...but we promised to stay in touch.Everything changed after that...i guess you can say long-distance took its toll on us.He got extremely busy with his assignments n we didn't have a proper conversation in 2 months ! and then one day he sent me an email saying that it wont work..and that he needs time to sort out his feelings for me ...he said he wasn't sure what he felt for me was really love or just a mere attraction.i was crushed...but i decided to act like I'm okay just to see him happy...but he wasn't..it was clear from the way he talked that he wasn't happy..something was still bothering him...as if leaving me was not what he wanted to do...i tried asking..but failed.we are still great friends...we manage to talk on the phone once a week..stay in contact through face book..and will be seeing each other again this summer..which is about 3-4 months away.I know for sure he isn't seeing anyone nor does he like anyone.I know him very well.And i feel like he is still attached to me although he doesn't wanna show it.And i still feel the strong bond between us ...My question is...this summer, what can i do to get as close to him as possible ? how can i make him open up to me ? how can i make him feel safe ? how can i make him feel its okay ? ...How can i make him mine again ? If he isn't in love anymore, what can i do to get him back in love with me...? i know you can't MAKE someone love you...but what are the things i can do to make him feel like I'm the right girl for him ? i need tips..tricks..pointers..whatever you have !Thank you in advance...sorry for making it too long =]
Date: Tue, 09 Mar 2010 |
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honestly... the answers on here arent too great i would ask ...
honestly... the answers on here arent too great i would ask brooke she helped me out so much and she replys super quick!
http://www.youtube.com/user/BrookesAdvice?feature=mhw4
Date: Tue, 09 Mar 2010
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Oh, that age old question. How to make him yearn for you???? ...
Oh, that age old question. How to make him yearn for you???? Well, thirty years of experience with men has taught me that you should not appear to be trying too hard....when he turns up, he'll be dying to see you, but pace yourself, don't be ALL THERE for him, all the time. Trust me, it works. Be sweet, lovely, attractive, but leave early some nights, have something else to do other times. Be sweet about it but don't be available all the time. It will almost kill you, but if you do it, you'll be adding something into the bank, time wise. Think of it as an investment. Don't give too much away, either, as in, leave him wondering what you are not telling him. Don't overdo this. Be subtle.
Good luck.
Date: Tue, 09 Mar 2010
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